Men Seeking Men: 9 Untapped Places to Find Them


For all men seeking men, how’d you like to see my secret stash of untapped places that you can use to find the best men?

Well consider yourself a lucky guy because today I’m going to share some of my the BEST sources with you.

Let’s get started!

1. Going to LGBTQ events

LGBTQ events can be a phenomenal way to meet new people and mostly eligible singles, so go ahead, choose an event of your convenience, set your mind with positive vibes and have an amazing time! You must remember that if you find someone you´re interested in, just go, meet him and start a conversation!

Some examples of these events include: the Madrid Gay Pride, NYC Pride, the São Paulo Gay Pride Parade, and Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras - just to mention a few.

2. Dating websites and apps

For men that are seeking a relationship, dating websites are for you. Currently, popular websites include OKCupid and Gay. You can also do a google search: craigslist men seeking men and you'll find a lot of men in your local area. These are simply two of hundreds of websites that are out there! There is abundance just waiting to be tapped into.

If websites is not your flow, another common and newly popular way is: apps. Some of these include VGL Gay, Mister, and even Tinder. Again, similar to that of websites, there are hundreds of different apps out there for you. The great thing about apps and websites is that most all allow the user to input certain search criteria or filter based on user preferences.

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3. Finding Outdoor Gay Men

If you're looking for men with a love of nature, there are several sites online that are waiting for YOU! For an example, there are websites like Gay Outdoors and Outdoor Lads that are for men who are hardcore outdoors enthusiasts! This is simply naming a few, do some research and see what’s out there!

4. Facebook Groups

There are tons of gay people on this social media platform and a huge number of fan pages and groups that are specifically designed for gay men who are single and relationship-ready. Type “gay single dating” into Facebook's search box and see what comes up! This is just one of the numerous ways Facebook has adapted for men seeking men!

5. Volunteer

Volunteering for an organization will allow you to meet other gay men that have similar passions for activism. Think of different passions that you have and potentially ways that you can volunteer for certain organizations utilizing that passion. You would be surprise how many companies are seeking volunteers. Volunteer opportunities include helping the set up for marches, protests, events, assisting staff, doing digital media, and performing community outreach.

6. Meeting Spiritual Gay Men

Going to a local gay-friendly church or spiritual center should be about your spiritual nourishment and well-being. Think about it before you decide which venue for spirituality is best for you. However, this does not mean you can’t also meet new people, enjoy deeply meaningful connections, and perhaps a new boyfriend! Look around your local area and see what’s there!

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7. Meetups

Many men may not have heard of this community yet but it’s quite fascinating. Meetups is a company that created a place for individuals in different cities, states and countries network together and essentially “meet-up” For an example, if you like to meditate, go snowboarding or arts and crafts – there is a meetup group for you! Check it out and see what’s out there!

8. Gay Bars

An extremely common men for men spot is at gay-friendly bars or luxury jazz/piano bars, and in some cases, regular bars as well. The idea here is many other men go to places like gay-friendly bars or luxury piano/jazz bars with their friends. If this is the environment that you like to be in – check it out! There is a gay bar in almost every major city in the United States!

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9. Amusement Parks

Finding your partner should be fun and not feel like a drag. Head to any amusement park with your friends and who knows who you will meet! There are thousands of people who attend amusement parks across the United States a day – be open, be friendly and smile.

Now It’s Your Turn!

Now it’s time to put these ideas into practice.

To make the process simple for you, I made a checklist that outlines the EXACT steps you need to take for each technique in this post.

The checklist also includes 2 bonus strategies that I didn’t include in this post.

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